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What's Holding You Back: Fear of Failing

15/11/2024

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The Fear of Failure: Embracing Grace and Growth
In our journey as believers, the fear of failure can often cast a large shadow over our aspirations and potential. This fear, while natural, can hinder us from fully living out our faith and embracing the abundant life promised to us in scripture. However, it's crucial to realize that failure is also an important part of our journey that can lead to growth, resilience, and a deeper understanding of God’s grace.

Understanding the Fear of Failure
The fear of failure can stem from many sources. Society often places tremendous pressure on us to succeed. We're inundated with images of perfection, success stories, and social media stories that can easily make us feel insecure and take us into self-doubt. A lack of affirmation, praise and encouragement for our efforts and achievements growing up, or criticism at every attempt rather than praise, or a one time massive failure event, can set us up for fear of failure and self-sabotage from then on.  Our subconscious dialogue becomes one of self-protection and fear of change. If this is the case for you, you may need to seek healing.  In the context of faith, fear may also manifest as anxiety over not meeting the expectations of others those we have set for ourselves. We worry about failing in our walk, at our jobs, in our relationships and at new ventures and assignments from God. 

It’s important to recognize that Jesus never intended for our walk with Him to be devoid of mistakes or setbacks. The Bible is filled with stories of individuals who faced significant challenges, encountered failures, and ultimately grew through their experiences. These challenges serve as reminders that our failures don’t categorize us; rather, they form part of our testimonies. God has never required perfection from us. 

Perfectionism, driven by the fear of failure, is a heavy yoke to carry, and God calls us to take His yoke instead, for His burden is light (Matthew 11:28-30). In Him, we find the freedom not to be perfect, but to be loved and sufficient in His perfect grace.

Embracing God's Grace
One of the most liberating truths in our faith is that we are under God’s grace. Romans 8:1 reassures us, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” This verse is a powerful affirmation that our standing before God is not based on our failures, but on Christ’s perfect righteousness. With this understanding, we can let go of perfectionism and embrace the idea that it’s okay to stumble.

When we fail, instead of succumbing to fear, we can choose to view our failures as opportunities for growth. When we face difficulties, we are prompted to rely more on God’s strength and wisdom, leading us into deeper communion with Him. Each setback offers lessons that draw us closer to Christ, helping us to mature in faith and understanding.

Many of us are stepping into new seasons in our lives, and the fear of failing at what God is calling us to can be quite overwhelming.  We may have an inkling of what that looks like but the fullness of it could be too much if it was all revealed at once.  Our total reliance on Him and His grace in these new seasons is vital.  Nevertheless, even if we stumble, He is there to pick us up and carry us forward.  Boldness, fearlessness, obedience and surrender are our key words for this moment.  When you're anxious about what's ahead, remember Proverbs 3:5-6 (MSG), "Trust God from the bottom of your heart; don't try to figure out everything on your own. Listen for God's voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; he's the one who will keep you on track" and “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” – Isaiah 41:10

Steps to Overcome the Fear of Failure
  1. Recognize Your Worth: Understand that your identity in Christ doesn’t depend on your successes or failures. You are a beloved child of God, simply staying in that place of rest and trusting in His love alleviates much of the burden to perform. He is never disappointed in us!
  2. Reframe Your Perspective: Instead of viewing failure as a negative outcome, see it as part of your growth process. Ask yourself what lessons you can learn from your experiences and how they can lead you deeper into your relationship with God.
  3. Set Realistic Goals: Break down your aspirations or goals into smaller, manageable steps. Celebrate the small victories along the way and don’t be discouraged by setbacks.
  4. Seek Community: Surround yourself with fellow believers who understand the struggles of faith. Sharing your experiences and fears can bring encouragement and support, reminding you that you are not alone in your journey.
  5. Lean into Prayer: Take your fears to the Lord in prayer. Ask for guidance, strength, and peace. Remember that prayer is not about perfection but about communication with a God who always seeks your best.
  6. Examine your Mindsets and Beliefs:  Stopping to examine our own thoughts and inner dialogues is a valuable exercise that can bring an understanding of what needs to change in our thought life.  In addition, examining what we are speaking out about our future and our identity can be a reflection of the state of our self-worth and image before God.
  7. Look for the God within You: We rarely see ourselves as others do.  Our default seems to be to see ourselves as less, and yet God has put within each one of us through our life experiences and His giftings, everything we need to succeed at whatever He is calling us into.  Writing up a list of all the gold within you and asking your friends to add to it is a very affirming exercise you can do to encourage yourself. 
The Beauty of Redemption
Our God is a God of second chances. In the same way that Peter denied Christ yet was restored, we too can find redemption. Our failures do not disqualify us from His plans; they often catapult us into them. Imagine the testimonies that can arise from our struggles and failures! Each story is an opportunity to showcase God’s work in our lives, how He transforms our trials into triumphs.

Moving Forward
The fear of failure may be an inescapable part of our walk, but it doesn't have to define it. By embracing God's grace, shifting our perspectives, changing our mindsets and confessions, and being a part of community, and having an active prayer life,  we position ourselves for personal growth and a deeper and more powerful relationship with Christ. Our journey may be one of twists and turns, but with every step, He is walking with us.  So whatever inkling you might have of what God has ahead for you, let's be bold, brave and courageous, and trust in His plans, and say YES LORD!

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